Confusion

some people do not believe in second chances... for them, it's too little too late.

while others do. others think that people would need their space to grow and to learn. and it's good sometimes to have a breather.

for me, i don't know... i do believe that in everything in life, a person should not be judged by the mistakes that they made, but by their capacity to learn (i.e., to not repeat their mistakes)

people are human after all, and we fell many many times before we finally learnt how to walk.

i also do think that if both parties' values and principles are aligned, both are willing to compromise, second chances are possible... 

and yet, i don't know... i'm confused...