Tuesday, May 22, 2007

weddings

not quite in the mood for weddings, but i have two coming up.

the second, i'm cool with.

the first, i'm half-hearted about.

1) i don't know the chick that well. well, we studied together, but that's about it.

2) i have to go get my lard ass off to some town (that i don't know-wasn't given details though i asked) to be her 'jimui'.

now:

i have NO IDEA what being a jimui entails.
-> i have never really watched a canto/ taiwan serial
-> when my hometown mates get married, they just get married. minus the 'jimui' thingy. they might perhaps have a 'hen's night', which sounds better to me, being the horny bitch that i am. seriously.
-> she didn't give me details about this either....

3) i'm kinda broke.

4) i have something to do in the morning on the day itself. i really hate to rush.

5) i don't know where i will be staying, and what time i'll be coming back. 'cos i should be somewhere on sunday, too.

6) damn, maybe i'm a control freak, but i just like things well planned.

7) i don't really like some of her friends much. i don't hate them, but i'm just not comfortable talking to them. we just don't quite click. that's all.

8) she JUST told me few weeks back... hotdamn...

9 comments:

aichiban said...

im luving them marriages now. more chance for me to be shutter-free. too bad i can only make it for the dinners. dinner shots are more boring-ish than the ceremony itself.

im even rushing back from redang to shoot in my never-contact cousin's wedding.

i luv pawning the pros.

neway. when r u gonna find urself a breeding partner?

nemesis-on-fire said...

hahahah... ok. so whatcha doing 30 june? u can bring ur big ass camera along. i'll hafta book u the whole day though. church ceremony in the morning. dinner in the evening.

never-contact cousin? WAHAHA. contact only during wedding la. well, good for u. more chance to practise.

breeding partner?

when i've found me a MAN who is:

1) trustworthy.
2) i can respect.
3) i can truly communicate on a deep level with.
4) responsible.
5) caring.
6) loving.

and of course, someone i'm sexually attracted to.

it's a life partner, a love partner, and a sex partner. that's what makes good breeding, mate. ;)

i know, a bit much to ask for. but not entirely impossible, not at all.

why settle for 2nd or 3rd grade when i can have it all?

:D if not, i'll just do it the Jolie way. have a baby. man optional. a lousy father=no father anyway. does more harm than good.

aichiban said...

you dont have to reduce the breeding partner expectation points to make it not entirely possible. but u do need to reduce the levels. ;)

30th June - Im partaying with Dave, and hopefully a few of those kawaii Jap chicks under the full moon

Anonymous said...

wtf is a jimui?

nemesis-on-fire said...

ah ban:
ooh, i damn near forgot: LOYAL. Must.

WHAT??? and stupid bhai boy-father (well, not that stupid, but frenfren so many years, i probably earned the right to call him that :P) NEGLECTED TO TELL ME THAT? OIII!!!!

What kawaii jap chicks? :P hmm... u think i can cabut from wedding early and go party? heheheheh. i'll go check out the chicks with u. twould be fun :D

yerdeh: PRECISELY. we kuchingites have no idea. something about being the brides' 'sisters'. the groom is not allowed to 'get' his bride until he's bribed her 'sisters': preferably by doing stupid tasks and paying angpao of RM (or watever ur currency) 9999999 (and infinity of 9s) something like that :P (depending on his capabilities to provide la, i guess.

aichiban said...

the partay is on a beach in Thailand namely Hadrin Beach, Koh Pangan. Luminate by the full moon. Sure u wanna tag along? >10k young ppl will be there, from all over the world.

I think bhai boy-father didnt tell you because the news of hugging kawaii Jap girls might reach the bhai girl-mother
huhuhu

nemesis-on-fire said...

nabeh!!! i got wedding to atend la. but >10K young ppl from all over the world sounds damn good lah.

chih :P and u think putting it on my blog would not reach bhai girl-mother??? haiya, the boy-father likes ass :P jap girls kawaii to what extent also dont have ass the way he likes it la :P

Anonymous said...

oh ya! i've heard about that. my singaporean friend had to do all sorts of embarassing stuff and answer all these questions prior to entering the house.

nemesis-on-fire said...

yerdeh: THAT's the one :P